About Anke

“How to

make real connection”

Teach – Coach – Speak – Profiling

Years ago, she started as a teacher for youth with behavioral issues. While her experienced colleague’s classroom had a pleasant atmosphere, chairs were flying across her own room. Curious about her experienced colleague’s secret, she asked, “How do you do it?” Her colleague replied, “I don’t know, I just see it.”

This was a huge trigger. Not wanting to wait years to develop the same experience, Anke embarked on a quest to discover what that “I just see it” was all about.

By exploring various successful disciplines, she found the answer. It’s not about what someone does, but why they do it. If you can tap into that and align your communication with others, you can build relationships with anyone, even those who are completely different from yourself.

As people around her began to witness her success, she started delivering her first training sessions. It didn’t take long before she realized that juggling her job and her entrepreneurial pursuits became too challenging to manage simultaneously.

These days Anke is an international coach, speaker and trainer in building relationships and influence people with body language, NLP and Face, Body and Mind Profiling. She has been trained by the best in the field and holds a master’s degree in body language, NLP, and behavioral issues. 

Over the years, she has helped various individuals, including politicians, entrepreneurs, police officers, recruiters, salespeople, hairdressers, teachers, managers, speakers, and anyone else who wanted to better understand others and utilize their own communication more consciously to have a greater impact and influence.

Anke is renowned for her ability to filter out the specific knowledge you need, saving you hours of reading and learning, and allowing you to achieve your goals with just a few interventions.


“It is my mission to help people to look beyond the noise and truly see, hear and feel who the other person is. I want to teach people how to look at others from the inside out, rather than from the outside in starting with themselves.

In this way, people will be less likely to judge and condemn, but they will build meaningful relationships that not only benefit their work but also their lives.

I believe that the quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life, both personally and professionally”.

Anke Lommen

What others say

I met with Anke for a 1to1 coaching session. She gave me incredible tips and guidance on making shifts for me to have more authority in my business. I’ve applied she has taught me already and I’m already seeing the results. I’m eager to learn even more. She is a wealth of knowledge but also an amazing human being. I’m grateful our paths have crossed and to know that she will be near so I can continue to learn from one of the best.

Holly Hartmen |CMO: Head of Marketing & Strategic Partnerships I Learning & Development I Speaker I Consultant I Best Selling Author

I have gained more respect for others and can now better assess what they do or do not need. This has had an immediate impact on my current job. I apply this knowledge on a daily basis and reap the benefits from it.

Sjoerd Reijmer | Director Global Forwarding | Overseas | Seacon Logistics

During the in-company training sessions for our 60 employees, she convinced the “hesitant ones” of their own strength and empowered the “convincingly self-confident” ones even further. Anke is a true self-made woman with a wealth of life experience, multiple studies, and strong self-reflection.

Frank Huizenaar | Director and co-owner of Huizenaar Kappers

"The skill of reading people lies not in judging them, but in understanding them."

 Navonne Johns

"The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said."

Peter Drucker

"The face is a mirror of the mind, and eyes without speaking confess the secrets of the heart."

St. Jerome

“The Key to connection”

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Mail: Ankelommen@gmail.com

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